what kind of mom? May 9, 2008

so lately some things have been hitting the fan around our house!  and when it hits everyone gets some of it.  i realize that it’s not such a bad thing because we are all affected because we all need each other so much.  (even though the girls think they know it all LOL)  we just finalized the moving of rooms in the home.  jase got his own room and the girls are back to sharing.  now believe me they have plenty of space but you’d think they were in the a 2×2 closet together.  they aren’t argueing any more than they were when they were in separate room so this is not a big deal.  still a little stress though.   then monday i get home from work, it’s a beautiful day, kids are outside playing, chey is getting ready for softball practice, then my phone rings it’s a good friend that gave me a heads up the the police were called because a bunch of boys were playing on top of someone’s storage trailer and when, well we will call them “witness’s” were asked my little jase’s name came up.  to make a long story short he owned up to it, apologized and moved on…………..WHO SAID BOYS WERE EASIER?  then it’s the struggle with the homework…. oh i was gonna do that later with chey or i couldn’t do that because who i do it with needs to be an adult (NOT TRUE- he’s been doing it with the random teenagers who are in and out of our house on a daily basis and they sign for it and everyone’s happy) lie lie lie………..uhhhhhhhhhhh  sierra’s got an attitude for whatever reason…………….cheyenne’s thinks she’s 30 years old, then comes the note yesturday that i receive from jase at 8pm at night (of course after he is done playing for the night) hum???  he got in trouble on the bus for something to do with his feet in the isle and talking back to the bus drive, something else but i don’t remember .  now i understand that this bus driver really is kinda a jerk and i only believe about 1/2 of it but he must be punished………..here comes the excuses……….my response( i will quote)  ” don’t care, be quiet, your grounded, love you!”  i can’t even deal!! LOL  then onto this morning when i look at jase and the shoes he is carrying to put on and realize that they are not his sneakers they are indeed his play ones.  conversation goes like this:

mom:  where are your sneakers?

jase: hum? ( the blank stare)

mom:  what?  where are your sneakers? 

jase: at the soccer field ( he had practice on tues it’s now friday (after rain too)

mom: why didn’t your tell me

jase: no answer just a shoulder shrug

mom : ok i’ll answer for you………….you figured you had practice today and you would get the sneakers back before i found out

i’ll tell you what they must think i just fell off the turnip truck.  do i have stupid written on my forehead?  so busted again , here comes the ommission is still a lie and god doesn’t like it, i love him no matter what, and so on, grounded some more!!

so sierra’s b-day party is tommorrow, suppose to do bbq-can’t deal ordering pizza

was gonna make a cake- can’t deal bought one

decorations-can’t deal making the kids do it

i’ll think i will sit back and drink………whadda you think?  and i don’t mean soda either!